It is actually our way of saying: WRONG we do NOT hate sXe as we have wrongly been accused. However ridiculous we may find several of their self-inflicted rules of abstention well, thats entirely up to people themselves. If they wanna live this way fine by us. Im sure they feel the same about us. What pisses us off is the fraction of the sXe community who feel entitled to preach these values and have the nerve to expect non-believers to adopt and share their views.